It seems some people say because it's what is wanting to be heard, not what is just wanting to be said. Ultimately you get judged upon it. Upon words. Sometimes words just shouldn't exist. They are so easily interpreted and so quickly assumed. Some words are so unnecessary; like gender. Sexuality.
Why is there a name upon gay. Straight. Lesbian. Why can't you just be...
Everything is genderised.
Everything is in a category.
Everything has to fit.
Sense doesn't fit.
Change doesn't fit into sense.
Nothing makes sense. No One can make sense.
So why is everything attempted to fit. Stop making things fit. Just let them fit.